Why ‘beige flags’ have entered the Internet’s dating vocabulary

It’s not a red flag and it’s not a green flag. What does the newly popular term ‘beige flag’ mean regarding our personal relationships and why is it causing an online debate?

Red flags and green flags have been discussed in dating spheres, friendship groups, and even the workplace for the better part of a decade.

We know red flags generally manifest as social faux pas and potentially unforgivable acts, such as poor hygiene, bad manners, or dishonesty. A sign of one of these will likely see most of us breaking off a relationship or making a mental note never to hang out with someone again.

By stark contrast, green flags are positive qualities.

For example, someone who listens to and respects your boundaries, makes an effort to communicate during tough moments, or has healthy relationships with their friends and family. Most people can agree these are the kinds of people we want around us.

Fresh on the dating scene is the controversial ‘beige flag’. What does it represent and why has it amassed 881 million views on TikTok in such a short period?